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How to get VA-paid home care for a veteran: three steps

By Evan Shelline · Founder & President, VETTED · September 24, 2026

Most families I talk to didn't know the VA could pay for help at home until they were already worn out. If you're caring for a veteran and it's getting harder, here's the short version of how it works.

1. Start with the veteran's VA care team

Call the veteran's VA primary care team or social worker and say plainly that the veteran needs help at home. Describe what has gotten hard: bathing, dressing, meals, getting around the house, memory. If the veteran isn't enrolled in VA health care yet, that comes first. A county veterans service officer can help with enrollment at no cost.

2. Let VA assess, and ask about respite too

VA decides whether the veteran qualifies for Homemaker / Home Health Aide care and how many hours a week make sense. A service-connected disability rating isn't required for this kind of care. If a spouse or adult child is doing most of the caregiving, ask about respite care as well, so the caregiver can get a break.

3. Ask for the agency you want by name

When VA sends the referral to a community home care agency, you can ask for a specific one. Ask the social worker what's possible in your area. A good agency will call you quickly, learn the veteran's routine, and give you an honest start date.

What I'd want every family to know

At VETTED we accept VA community care referrals across Oakland, Macomb and Wayne counties in Michigan. Our full family guide, Does the VA pay for home care?, walks through the details, including costs.